My relationship is over now. To be honest, as much as I love and miss her I am glad to be free of all the heartache. While together my girlfriend had several affairs. And I got angry and tried to control her, none of which did any good. I want to make sure I don't repeat the mistakes in this last relationship in the next one, whenever I decide I am ready to date again.
So what are boundries exactly and how do you enforce them? Like many people on this board I always felt good about myself. Strong. But this experience has left me feeling sad, broken, and pathetically inadequate.
I have just booked my first appointment for IC but it seems there is so much wisdom on this board i thought i would start here. Any advice? Thought?
