Trent, I agree to disagree as well. My remarks were not the result of just reading anecdotal situations and outcomes here on the boards. I followed Divorce Remedy to a tee and had a number of DB telecoaching sessions. The touted success rate is simply not supported.
(((Serenity))))Infidelity or no, this is so true:
Originally Posted By: Serenity13
The mess each of us has been left in is deplorable...The pain is almost unimaginable
Susan Anderson, author of The Journey From Abandonment To Healing has worked with abandoned spouses for twenty-five years. She characterizes the pain and stages of the one abandoned/left behind as "Absolutely debilitating" and sees the effect as somewhat akin to PTSD. I highly recommend this book!
Originally Posted By: Serenity13
One thing my Pastor told me so many months ago - He doesn't want you to ever be second best...
Is that what your Pastor said looking deep in your eyes that affected you so profoundly back then? I can appreciate how powerful that must have been for you. I welled up slightly just reading it right now.
(((Serenity)))
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
