You know first hand I respect you my friend however in this instance we will agree to disagree...
It took me months before I realized I was worth more then this...
My self-respect and self-worth took a huge blow and you know this...
Putting a label on it just eases the LBS - Call a spade a spade - A cheater a cheater.
Last time I checked there wasn't infidelity where Coach and Greek were concerned...
My post is specifically aimed at the people sitting around waiting for their respective spouses to pull their heads out of their butts...Our SPOUSES are being intimate with another person, having sex with another person, sharing their day to day with another person - How could you not think you weren't worth more then that?
After picking up the pieces each time he came in and dished out more false hope - Even this past Sunday with his declaration of "love" and "confusion", I finally had enough...
Each of us has but one life to live and you can choose to live it waiting around for someone who dishes out the ultimate betrayal on a day to day basis or you can cut your losses and move forward...
The mess each of us has been left in is deplorable...The pain is almost unimaginable...However as I have grown strength this past year, with the help of Him, I realized I am worth a hellava lot more then this...I know He doesn't want me nor any of us to suffer...
One thing my Pastor told me so many months ago - He doesn't want you to ever be second best...
Settling for a spouse who cheats on you time and time again - Puts you in the 2nd place spot and I am sorry - It is time for me to be 1st.
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
