8, I think that reminding your H about birthdays etc. is kind of in the caretaking department. I would avoid that kind of stuff right now because it projects that you don't think that he can look after himself, and he might be feeling insecure about himself right now. I could be off-base.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
