remember bill that communication is half the battle and your lines are WIDE OPEN, be thankful for that!
all you need now and will continue to need is patience, you have shown extreme patience so far - just keep doing what your doing
i am sorta in the same boat "sex" wise as you, altho hubby and i are sleeping in the same bed, he does not want any. i have this thought process i use now in this situation that helps me thru the "lonely" times.
i sit and think would i be here if my hubby COULD NEVER have sex again, for example because of some accident or disease or something, and i answer with a truthful YES - you know you love your mate enough that if something like that would happen you would stand by them no matter what (i think of chris reeves wife, how dedicated she is to her hubby)
with that in mind - just deal with it for now. the one good thing we have on our side is that there ISN'T some debilation and this CAN HEAL - with a little time
