I am certainly up for the task. I have never felt this way about her and I have so much to give and I hope its not "too little too late."
Marriage has never meant so much to me. I did so much damage to our R and I am willing to endure hell to reconcile...and have endurer as much so far but I keep going
And if she suddenly becomes a clinging vine and needing a lot of emotional things from you, and wanting you to spend all your free time with her....will you still be so intent on keeping her? One reason you want her so badly is b/c you are on the verge of losing her, but what if that changes?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
