I just confirmed my W did do a search on how to remove her name from the mortgage.

I have been keeping my distance from her all day. I pretty much stay upstairs while she has stayed down stairs. A few times today she called me down stairs to show me something or came upstairs to see what I was doing. When I was downstairs she asked me a few times to get her something and of course I did.

I feel more at loss today than I have in the past 3-4 weeks. She is now actually researching how to go about the separation.

Up till yesterday it was easy to act "as if" because I felt more optimistic about our sitch but in the past 24hrs it has taken a dramatic turn for the worse.


Last edited by OfficerInNeed; 04/09/10 11:49 PM.
M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10