Thanks for your advice Celestial..

I read the update of your sitch and I am sorry that things didn't work out for you. You do sound a strong woman though and I am sure you are off for better days from now on...

I know I am not supposed to mention ow, it's just that I have had the need to make sense of all of this, as in the case of this ow, to say that my husband has "afaired down" is an understatement...in all respects. It has made me even feel sorry for how low he has fallen. I can only justify one thing that may have attracted him to her: she is matching his present state of juvenile behavior. Before his MLC, he wouldn't have even so much as looked at her.

I do intend to avoid talking about her next time I talk/see him though, because I am tired of this impasse.


Bomb: 4/2009
M28 T32 Sep8
Me: 53, H:57
S20,D17
D papers filed by H: 2013
H didn't follow up with divorce
I completely let go ever since