MLC Saga, contd...

[elfie]

[/quote]So what is it that you are angry about?

Is it the actual affair, the lies, because she was your friend, because you don’t know if it is over, or the fact that he gets upset when you talk about it?[quote]

For all of the above and more, Cat...

If there was anything I complained about to my H about our R was the lack of emotional intimacy on his part, which affected the physical intimacy on my part...I felt lonely for years...So instead of him trying to come closer to me, he develops EA and then PA with a slut. All the long hours that I was alone waiting for him to come home from work, he was spending with her. Sharing with her private info about me and our life together. Yuk.

Angry that the slut took advantage of him being so desperate and needy and used him. You see, the first time he entered MLC she was a witness of that and it was then that the door was opened to her. She "volunteered" then to help by talking to him about seeing a C that she was seeing..and she started calling H, and that's how she "befriended" him. She had always been "lurking" after that for the right moment. The "friendship" became EA and eventually PA.

The disgusting thing is that this wasn't the first time she has pulled this with a friend's husband. She's done the same thing with another friend of hers when that friend had problems with her M. She "volunteered" her help there too, but she was unlucky in that case because that H was already involved with someone else..So, you see? She is not just another ow, she is She-Devil. I honestly feel I have been dealing with Satan himself here. She has problems with her M also, but she is escaping by interfering in other peoples' lives and preying on whatever she can.

I am angry with me also, because I was too naive in this whole thing.

I am angry that they have both been acting like I am the one who has a problem with this A, that I have really overstressed its significance. WTH? I should apologise now?

When I confronted the SheDevil, she admitted that regardless of the A with her, H was still very unhappy...which made me feel sorry for him...I have been losing my mind here...