Yeah, she brought her pillows with her - all she said is that she needs to talk to our counciller about it.
There are two elements to this: 1) She likes not having to worry about another person in her space - someone getting up to go to the bathroom, wanting the light on to read. Like not having to worry if something she's doing (watching TV, for example) is bothering me. She's said that much of this is just logistical stuff that can be easily solved. I'm already pursing solutions to stop snoring. 2) Something else that has to do with the issues she's dealing with in therapy. Dealing with opening up, being vunerable, intimacy. SHe's talked more about #1, but I think #2 is really the larger component - last night was clearly more of an "emotional" thing than a logistical thing.
