One major change in me that is going on is that I don't see my ex as the enemy any more. I'm tired of fighting, but I'm also stronger than I was before. When she raises her tone at me, I just glance at her in curiosity as to why she lets her anger control her
This is where I'm struggling with right now. The D is just starting to really roll and we're in a custody fight. Legal custody isn't the issue. It's physical custody. She wants sole and I want joint.
We had our first mediation session and I went in telling myself I wouldn't do point-counter point or raise my voice or argue.
And then we just kept trying to out argue each other. So it didn't go well. I can't wait until she is no longer the enemy.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
