It's human nature, we only appreciate what we have when it's gone.
My H tells me this too. H says that that is why maybe we should get a legal S so that he can see what it's like without me.
that's fine just as long as he knows that when you're gone and he realizes this and wants you back, it won't be his decision, you'll have to consult with your boyfriend and ask him how he feels about your husband's "awakening" ;-)
yup! lol
I don't think he realizes what it would really be like. He says things like "maybe you'll find someone who'll be able to love you like you want to be loved"
He would go a day without emailing/texting/calling me to ask me to do something or for some info he needs or to do something for him. Does he think that I'll continue being his personal assistant if we S? I don't think so.
M: 32 H: 34 S:5 D: 3 D: 1 Together 11 years Married 7 Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off) ILYBINILWY: 08/09
"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting." -Laura Munson