I am not sure you understand....he has NOT called off the affair. In fact, I wouldn't be surprised if he spends this weekend with her. I have been the ONE since December trying to get him to come back to me. Also, forget about the ML this next weekend, he told me that he did not want me to come on to him sexually that it is not the right "place" for that. Plus, now that he has done it with her, he feels guilty about touching me. Even though I will try and look my best at bedtime, I seriously doubt anything will happen. OK, I will keep the olive branch out there next weekend and take the leap of faith but this is so hard to go into when I have no idea where his head is with this. Let me ask your opinion....I told him I will leave him alone until I see him next Friday night. Something I have not done in the whole four months we have been separated and something he said was a "turn off" because I wouldn't leave him alone....so....when I meet him in the lobby of the hotel next Friday night, what would you say is the best way to greet him?
