((( Sol )))

Sorry to hear about your update.

From your last update in your previous thread, it sounds like he wants the marriage, but instead of saying "I want a real marriage" he's saying "I don't want to be this going on anymore".

Was he always like that? His language are threats and blame. I am sorry, he needs to learn to communicate in a healthy way. Does he have a drinking problem?

This is something that you can do. Show him how to communicate in a healthy way. Ignore his threats (if they are not physical). Let him know you want a real marriage too, with healthy communication.

Work in IC on how to implement boundaries.

He wants you back into the house without much fuss. He's not getting it. His threats might escalate.