I think you should just sit quietly and wait. The answers will definitely fall into your lap if you are patient. Mermaid knows that we all use to say to sit quietly and things will be revealed to you. This is so true.

I was curious as to why your h continued to say you couldn't move into the city where he lived. I wanted to know just what the hang up was about all of that. I can understand you not wanting to up root the children and, of course, your position will not be easy to give up either.

It's going to be a tough decision to make, but I do believe if you sit quietly, you will be given the answers that you will need to decide what you and your children will need to do.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.