rebut nothing. Seriously, why would you rebut anything she says at this point, unless she's claiming you worship satan? If she says you are a purple leopard and that bothers you, say you are sorry she sees you that way and DROP IT....
you DO rebut her and you DO argue and pursue and use God to guilt her into seeing the truth (which we all understand!!) but you must instead do true detachment which, on occasion you have done/ so go back to detaching...it'll ease your mind and rest your heart some, so you don't feel you "have to file now"....
Why do you feel that way anyhow? Is it b/c you thought baptism was "the way" and instead of truly detaching, you were very attached to the results of HER religious experience? Remember, you do your best and leave the results up to the Big Guy upstairs.That's detachment.
Don't count on the pastor making a bit of diff if you are hovering around "just curious" about how it goes, b/c she KNOWS you are forming alliances, and she feels cornered. You are in her sand box and don't have to be, and should not be. Get out of it. It's hers. Stay in your own sand box working on your life. Right or wrong she does feel that way. So Back off! You know this Pigskin...
Back off big time. Let her solve this puzzle herself. IF the time comes that you cannot tolerate limbo anymore, then you will have your answer and you won't need to ask her anything. This is now about YOUR time line....not hers. Make sense? j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
