"DD would like to celebrate your b-day with you and I think it would be nice for her if she saw us both for a cake or something. Is there a particular time/location that works for you? she'd probably even like to stay with you that night, so can we swap night...s? I'll probably want to do the same on my b-day too. "
Sounds good.
Originally Posted By: StupidRomeo
I thought part of DB'ing was to be the WAS's friend so I keep wondering if I should ask her how she's doing and if she needs anything (money particularly)? I don't think it's pursuing?
I don't think that DBing is being the WAS' friend. She made a decision to separate so she has to be a grown-up and let you know if she needs more money. She won't respect you if you try to caretake her right now.
(((SR)))
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
