1st one after 6 month affair they were seperated. they tried to reconcile but no one had changed so it didn't work out. 2nd one divorced after 3 months, then she was asking to see if they could work on it it 3 months later, but he was so repulsed by her actions he said no way. last one has had a 6 month affair, broke it up and she starting begging for him back once he had moved on. She has been wanting to work it out for the past couple months and he is undecided at the time being.