I did call him. He was sulky and said how everything in his life is f-cked up, how he will go home tonight and drink/get drunk, said he is thinking of takinga permanent vacation back to his home country, said he is stressed about everything, including us.
I asked if there was anything I could do to help with that. He said nothing.
Somehow I feel worse after we speak on the phone. My heart was heavy the entire convo.
He asked what I was doing later and I said I had no plans as of yet.