Originally Posted By: konfuseeed
Well, she had been up until yesterday. Yesterday was the first time she admitted to having any fault. Before then it was all my fault, I ruined everything.

Yesterday was the first time she was even open to the idea that we caused this together.

I took that as a positive sign.

My #1 rule right now with her is no R talk, unless she talks, and if she does, I listen... And ONLY listen.


yep say absolutely nothing except reaffirming her.

her admitting her afults is a plus. at least she's admitting it's not all your. Have you seen any positive changes towards you?


waw 36 (spiritual covenant and common law marriage)me 32
together 13 mos. Bomb dropped march 2nd 2010

children SD (8) S (10) S (3)
need help from anyone with my sitch