OW's Husband called me today. His wife is back at home and back in the marital bed and getting movers to move everything back home from her apartment.

Apparently they have been talking for more then 2 weeks about her coming back home. OW only told my WH last Saturday. OW's H feels good about how things are going for them.

My H has been quiet yesterday. I called him last night about a business question and he sounded pretty down. He called this morning to cancel our meeting because he has a job on the go with a deadline. Again sounded pretty down.

I'm just letting him be. He seems pretty deep in his OW withdrawal/MLC depression right now.

I called him just now that I'm going to take a look at a new washer/dryer (my dryer just died) tonight and he mentioned couple of days ago that he wanted to come with me, so I asked if he still wants to. He said yes, I said "So I'll meet you at my house?" he replied "You mean our house". Also offered to take daughter to her activity before we go and I offered that I'll make dinner in the meantime and he can eat with us.

Still didn't sound upbeat or happy, but at least he is doing the right things.


M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO