Is she worth the fight or not? If not then walk away proud.
If she is then take your time to figure it out. Take this time to improve yourself. Maybe you will decide that you are better off w o her or maybe not. But whatever u do DONT REACT w EMOTIONS. Respond w DIGNITY and HONOR.
leaving with my chin up for sure. I am very Detached and don't let her words affect me anymore. I feel very proud for the fight I put up for my marriage and I do deserve better than this. She even told me that. I want her to be happy, She thinks he knows her so good. He knows her personality. once they learn each others character we'll really see how good they are together. She is a tough person to live with but If he can handle her than I wish them all the best. This was the hardest 6 months of my life but I know for sure that it was worth all the pain. I am now the man that I always wanted to be.
Is it a pretty common thing that WAW will fall for somebody that is physically unattractive? I know that the emotional connection is what lures them in, and these predators are able to say everything they need to hear or aren't getting from their husbands. I have 3 friends who have gone through this same situation within the past year and all of the men were completely unattractive physically compared to what they had. For those who do still care or want it to work always keep a glimmer of hope. All of my friends did have a time when their WAW did want to work on the marriage again, but by that time they were done.
Is it a pretty common thing that WAW will fall for somebody that is physically unattractive? I know that the emotional connection is what lures them in, and these predators are able to say everything they need to hear or aren't getting from their husbands. I have 3 friends who have gone through this same situation within the past year and all of the men were completely unattractive physically compared to what they had.
funny...i pointed that out to my W just the other day about OM being a fat disgusting slob...lol
she answered that isn't that she read in one of my books that WAS usually goes for less attractive person to build their own self esteem?
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Is it a pretty common thing that WAW will fall for somebody that is physically unattractive? I know that the emotional connection is what lures them in, and these predators are able to say everything they need to hear or aren't getting from their husbands. I have 3 friends who have gone through this same situation within the past year and all of the men were completely unattractive physically compared to what they had. For those who do still care or want it to work always keep a glimmer of hope. All of my friends did have a time when their WAW did want to work on the marriage again, but by that time they were done.
Yes. EXTREMELY common for a cheating spouse to "trade down," as it were.
Wife was listening to one of our wedding songs in the car yesterday. She also has been coming to church with me on Sundays. I don't mind her company and we actually get along well for the kids. Do you think it is right to still do some things together for the kids? in a way i just think she is trying to save face because I know that she very much fears looking like the bad guy for ending our marriage.
i am sure she is trying to save face....who wants to be known as the cheating spouse. If you are comfortable with doing things with her FOR the kids that is up to you....keep it pleasent for them.
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If it's The Right Thing to Do for the KIDS, then it's the right thing to do. Don't do it to please her or try to attract her, and don't NOT do it because you think "she'll be getting her way" or something.
