Ah, the divide b/t intellect and emotions, wish I could get a better reign on that....
I thoguht about you last night, you have so much going on already with your kids. You hubby- ugg.
Anyhow, you seem very wise to see a lawyer and get yourself and the kids protected. Hubby isn't trustworthy at the moment.
In Canda if you do have to pursue a D, if there is infidelity (not sure there is...) does it benefit you in the court proceedings?....
Have you thought of posting over in the Infideleity section? There are some wise experts over there with lots of great insight and guidance....
There was no affair in my relationship but the phrase I said over and over again was "I want to do what whatever it takes to give the kids a great life." Kids are happier with 2 parents and not part time parents..." That was my focus point. What is best for the kids. I think you probably thinking the same too.... I repeated it alot.
IDK, there are others that are really good with "truth darts"
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
