Jas,

Do you mind if I ask you a few questions? If so you don't need to answer.

Just trying to see how my H feels or what he is going through.

Did you still miss and love your H while you were going through your MLC? Did you ever think about going back but were afraid to?
Did you contact your H often? Did you want your H to contact you?
Did you just want to be left alone by him?

My H doesn't have OW, but I know I need to be prepared (even though I'm not) because people on this board tell me it is likely to happen.

If you get a chance could you hop over to my thread?

Thanks


M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08