Yesterday my IC (former MC) said my W might have a borderline personality disorder. She said this in response to W telling her ICs statements that make her seem strong, independent, and self-directed.
Honesltly, I think this may have been what you wife thought the counselor expected her to say. Like she was trying ot pleas the counselor. I have read that people with low self-esteem some times are people pleasers....
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)