Oh, and BTW, the whole not showering, dressing poorly thing... you should read up on some Mom's message boards. It happens so much, maninly when you have kids under the age of 3. A friend emailed me and stated now that she is working her hubby stated- "nice to see you showering again everyday..." lol

I myself today am super sleep deprived and am still in my PJ's and have not yet showered. (not something I really want to broadcast to the world here...hehe)

M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)