Are regrets when you end a separation normal?

[june72]

OTMT,
I just want to caution that not everything an IC states is acurate. You can read volumes on here about how people have had horrible expereicnes with MC/IC.
If I had mistened to my MC- our marriage wouldn't make it another 6 months. I chose to not listen and work on fixing things.
She had told me to safe up money...

I get really, really leary when someone starts throwing out diagnosis- esp. that one. IDK, I would listen more to a PhD orMD in psych, IMO.

I personally think you wife is having cycles of anger and hurt (I admit I have this). I know no to say nothing to my hubby about it. She is really vacilating in my opinion.

I mean you fixate so long on the plan of a D or S. Or that this is the way a person is. When the spouse changes- I think it can really throw the other spouse off kilter. I think there is a lot of "why know" thoughts, and "I still have hurt and anger there"


I only think in the beginning or repairing a marriage the cycling back and forth is normal for both parties. And are you forgetting how you have vacilated back and forth on the marriage and your wife also, mister....

IDK, I will there were more on here with insight on repairing a marriage b/c I personally need the guidance,,,

Now, how do I see if the computer is on compatability mode? We got anew computer so it would make sense that a setting has to fixed.

Later go kiss you wife today, out of the blue, and tell her you had to b/c you were thinking how wonderful she is.... not a command, just a thought, if you wish...