He knew because she text him about me doing it. She always text him if I do her to tell him I am bothering her so then he gets upset with me because he said that she told me to stop texting her but I didn't. I was asking her to block it because I think there is an emotional affair and I don't want to get the urge to text her anymore and I couldn't block it on my end.
My H changes his actions everyday, one day he is remorseful the next short with words. Then he tells me that I need to end all contact with his friends going forward meaning since we are going to seperate.