How to approach W about OM

[OfficerInNeed]

My W has endured so much pain through our 10 year R. I can honestly that her words are justified by my past actions.

Before I left this morning I said "If you honestly think and see no changes in me over the past 3 months please tell me, because if so I will need to find a new counselor or better methods on how to improve myself." My W would not say anything or even look at me. Then I said "I hope that one day we can sit down and I can get to know the "real you"." then I walked out the door.

I think while I was gone she was searching the web on how to get her name off the mortgage.

Do I think my W is cheating? in my gut, no. I just think she has changed from the person I once knew...