I truly did not get 'happy' again until I realized that I needed to look out for my kids first, but then choose things for my life that make my life better for ME, not in case he decided to come back later...
Well said my friend!
Because I spent my life living for other people, I didn't get my happiness nor my peace until I started living for myself...I still have bad days, however I try like hell to not let them rule me like I used to.
Originally Posted By: BobbiJo
I mean, my ex COULD go get intense personal therapy, he COULD learn how to be a genuine man of integrity, but he CHOOSES to play the victim of crappy circumstance instead, so things will NOT get better for him...
Sounds just like mine - Always someone elses' fault and God forbid he owns any type of responsibility... Like I told him this past Sunday - This is your loss.
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
