rw, my letter to OW is really not anything needed. As my friend John said, it's revenge. But I do need to "talk" to his woman somehow. Maybe that will change.
I strongly felt this too Kalni, but when I really got down to the bottom of it all, I guess I was hoping that eventually she would two hoots she wouldn't have done it in the first place.
In the end I felt that contacting her just made me feel smaller as opposed to empowered. It let her know she had gotten to me.
I have just come to the point where I know I dislike her and I have accepted that. I know I won't ever forgive her, but I don't have to see her so that's ok for my sitch. I wrote so many letters and emails that I ended up burning and ditching.
I really wouldn't bother contacting OW. Just because your H say's it doesn't bother him doesn't mean you need to.
Last edited by saffie; 04/09/1005:09 PM.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
