I would say that 85% of marriages COULD be saved, if the parties were willing to work on it when troubles first crop up.
But by the time we get to the point of looking up divorce-busting websites and forums, the M is usually close to the point where these interventions aren't going to resurrect the dead...
I mean, my ex COULD go get intense personal therapy, he COULD learn how to be a genuine man of integrity, but he CHOOSES to play the victim of crappy circumstance instead, so things will NOT get better for him...
I truly did not get 'happy' again until I realized that I needed to look out for my kids first, but then choose things for my life that make my life better for ME, not in case he decided to come back later...
OK gonna shut up now cause you said it way better....
