He's been doin that DLS.. but its only been three months.
A rough estimate is TEN months of d-bing to turn her around... we had a bit of a backslide yesterday that threw a wrench in things.
OIN. I think you bringing up Tony C was NOT helpful today. Your wife is going to get a phone call from a man now and then... confronting her right NOW while she's ready to step out the door with her father holding the nob for her is NOT going to help you.
Keep an eye on her, you are a cop, you know there are ways of watching people wtihout confronting them directly.. USE IT.
She's QUITE RAW from yesterday's fight.. the LAST thing you want to be doing right now is confronting her a boutsomething that at the time looks trivial.
Why on earth didn't you just write DOWN the number that was calling and check into the number on your OWN to verify it?
Do NOT confront this woman if you have a history of jealous and controlling behaviour, she needs to see a NEW you, not a RERUN of the OLD you