I'm not trying to 2X4 but look at the facts: he's an adult back living with his Mom hanging out with people who just got out of college. HE HAS REGRESSED! How much lower can he go? It's not like he can be kicked further down the ladder, you know? He's got to want to climb up the ladder at this point. And he's got to want to do this himself because he's sick of sitting sprawled at the bottom.