SCH, this looks like a no-win situation. If you can't find the right answer now maybe you should just do nothing...keep on your current path and wait what develops next.
I know that you are probably scared that if you don't do what he wants, you will drive him away. If he really wants his family back, he will try harder to find solutions and if he just walks away that will tell you a lot as well.
Not easy, wouldn't want to be where you are now
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
