Just prepare a blanket script you give him for EVERY unwelcome interaction
1. Stop cheating 2. Stop lying 3. You hurt me, yourself, AND most important your children when you lie, cheat, and play games with our marriage 4. etc
However you phrased it in your original confrontation is ilkley fine, feel free to update it based on current events, but I think that's rpetty solid
I am a big believer in consistent messages... you don't need a NEW response, your original confrontation was fine, just give him that again and then WALK AWAY
He's been posting to her facebook so he's not acknowledging the first confro yet.
This BS smear campaign of his needs no response... he's just trying to characterize you badly to SAVE FACE...
If YOU TRUST the people he's talking about and you are CONFIDENT they don't care what he has to say then you don't need to negotiate on this. HE is teh ONLY ONE he's FOOLING or IMPRESSING right now...
I don't think you need to answer to him to be honest.. its an argument and him baiting you into one isnt' going to bring you two any closer.
The thing is, he WANTS to TALK to you, but he doesn't know HOW... until you get a FT to TRAIN him OR the withdrawal periodends and he's out of the fog its little point in talking much to my mind.
