Faith without works... (my new thread)

[james217]

Not to be a downer but in my case my H got a 'secret' phone to use with his affair partner. That way he could leave his phone out, I could see it at all times, check the records, and it didn't matter. BC he was using the other phone all day long at work, taking it in the bathroom at home to text, even texting in our bed after I fell asleep! (This I know bc it fell out of his pj pants pocket one night and I rolled over on it, finding it and reading a ton of not good texts...)

Just saying that monitoring her cell phone is like .0001 of the solution.....

she can't afford it. she doesn't even know i'm monitoring the calls. she think I got them out of her phone when she came by my place 2 weeks ago and spent thenight. She fell asleep and I told her I snooped.

we are both locked into this contract for two more years. and she'd have to pay a ridiculous deposit to do that. she barely has money for bus fare food and her place right now. and that doesn't even stretch enough for her. I've had to dip into our savings at least 3 times in the past few weeks and help her go get clothes food and just basic hygeine stuff til she gets a check from her job

we can't open any more accounts. Our credit is pretty bad because we had some fraud going on on our accounts. Her wages are gonna get garnished about her 5 figure student loan.

now that may change. she may get another phone soon but I don't think she's going to continue the OM crap and she's pretty cheap (lol) she needs new clothes for work and is tring to move to another place soon so she's not gonna do that when we can just half this bill and pay it.

but that is a good point. I could find out very easily though. Although we didn't get a marriage certificate? we do have documents in place giving hte other full legal liability and the ability to discuss any accounts and anything. I know every single account she has.

I have access to them if I want to heck im on most of them with her . I just dont do it.

yesterday she just asked me to pull her credit report. she wanted me to help her look over some bills and help her clear some stuff of her credit. I said I'd think about it. But I'd see the hits from any phone company she tried to get a phone through from there.

I'm extremely excellent at intel. but she could always have a cheapy prepaid phone but she really really does not have the money for it.



my WAW is pretty bold though. Even if I told her I was snooping she would STILL KEEP THE PHONE AND MAKE CALLS ON IT if she so desired. that's just her personality.