)Not to totally project myself on you (but I am!) ...
I know when I initially did the "LRT" it was TOTALLY to see how it would affect my H. I changed things up to see what his reaction would be. I didn't make real plans, I would go out and wander around Barnes and Noble or something for hours hoping he would miss me and wonder where I was.
You seem to be 'getting it' faster than I did...(yeah it took me almost 2 years! )
Just change things about you that YOU want different, whether they are things she likes or not. And if you don't think you have a lot to change at this point, then enjoy being you and ulitmately you WILL see that it is HER loss....didn't you say other people are already noticing how much better you seem to be doing?
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