I am planning on what to say when/if he brings up me confronting/exposing to this friend with his mother involved. I'll tell him the truth, but it's how to frame it that's important.
The truth is that he went behind my back and talked to our friends and told them I was crazy and he didn't love me. He introduced her to them as his "soul mate" the one and only person to "ever make him happy." Yeah, right, I remember THOSE words. (sad that it makes me doubt our R now, right?) I did nothing but stand up and say to those friends - hey, back off and let this M play out on it's own without your interference... oh, and BTW - if you can see your way clear to, please help support the M in any way you can. I'm not ashamed of that... but I'm afraid to tell him in those words because as you said, Allen, he's deluded. And in this delusional state, he will not believe a word he hears from my lips.
