Thanks, Rob. I'll do my best. I'm going to stay tough.
I wouldn't say I was thinking of other women. We've had that threesome conversation in the past. She's even brought it up a few times. This last time it caught her in a off mood. She apologized the next day for over reacting.
That's right, you'll DO your best, you won't TRY, you'll DO!
As for the "thinking of other women" conversation, it's ok either way and let her bring it up and when she does and you guys are talking, I want you to smile at her when you're talking about it and realize that she is revealing her insecurities about herself and the possibility of losing you when she has those discussions, for someone who took advantage of you and didn't recognize your value when she had you, this is a good lesson for her to learn - appreciate what you have because you'll be missing it when it's gone ;-)
