Thanks, Rob. I'll do my best. I'm going to stay tough.
I wouldn't say I was thinking of other women. We've had that threesome conversation in the past. She's even brought it up a few times. This last time it caught her in a off mood. She apologized the next day for over reacting.
She should be apologizing and kissing your ass since she acted out on her fantasy of being with another man, I love these double standards, she gets angry at you for thinking about another woman but it's ok for her to have an actual physical affair with another man and keep you tow for more sex on those days when she isn't hooking up with the other guy?! WTF?!
Don't forget this point, she's done a good job of twisting things around and making you look like the bad guy and then making her fantasies real but you voice whats in your head and you get in trouble?!
C'mon, don't fall for that crap behavior, if it's ok for her to do it, let her know that it's ok for you to do it, nothing is holding you back now from doing the same thing - if she wanted loyalty she should have provided the same.
You'll notice that the dynamic in your relationship changes now, she'll be pursuing you, you won't be calling her, you'll get several text msg's to your 1 or 2, a ton of voicemails to reply to, emails, etc. Human nature dictates that we only appreciate the value of things when they're gone, when we have them, we don't care much about them but we sure as heck notice them when they're gone or when they're starting to make an exit - don't lose sight of this fact, scarcity of supply will move people to action.
