What have I changed? I've lost weight (about 10-15lbs). I'm not sure how much I could afford to lose. I'm fairly thin now. I had to buy some new clothes. I still go shopping for new clothes about every other week, but nothing crazy. Between cycling, bagpiping, my fraternal benevolent group, and all the home improvement I'm doing, I'm pretty busy. I start golf lessons tomorrow, which is my 180. The W always wanted me to try it, but I resisted, so I'm going to see how it goes. I'm going out more, even if it by myself. So, I'm not sure what more I should be doing. I have people telling me I look great, and that I look happy.
Which is why I think the LRT will ultimately fail. Even if my W is looking at me (which she currently isn't, since I have zero physical contact with her) and thinking that I look, sound, smell great, I don't think she will pursue because it would be too much work for her. I honestly don't think she will put forth an effort, because she will be unwilling to make any changes of her own.