Yup. Be careful there are so many women and men on this forum I read daily that use a line like "He's cheating on me, but he's a great father to my kids.." or "She's cheating on me, but the kids love her"

Well, if you are a bad SPOUSE, you are a bad PARENT. GOOD PARENTS do NOT bring INFIDELITY into a MARRIAGE.. the two are related. You cannot compartmentalize marrriage away from parenting, they are related. If they are a bad marital partner, they are being bad parents.

Until they are a GOOD marital partner, you need to protect your children from BAD PARENTS.