Allen A: I am not suggesting you push for a divorce at all. I am suggesting you protect yourself and your baby and CUT HIM OUT of your LIVES until he grows up.
I agree. Take focus off him. If he stays around or comes back fixed later, you can keep the door open if you want. But participating in his melodrama now is not healthy for pregnancy and baby. Gets too many stress chemicals flowing. Allow yourself to backburner this fool for five months.
