Ok, so looking at this from a DR point off view.

My goal would be to have a good date with my wife at the zoo.

What are my actions to make that happen?

1 - PMA
2 - Give her space, and give it some more time before we actually plan a day. (prbly a month)
3 - No OR or M talk.
4 - Being charming and attractive


Bingo.

I think I got it.