Seeking Answers, and Snodderly said...

Originally Posted By: seeking answers
The four week time frame is also a red flag. What is the significance of four weeks?


I don't know. I guess he just thought it was a decent amount of time to either ...

A) show the L's that we are reconciling and thus stop the legal proceedings for me to get child support (which he doesn't seem to want me to put through), or

B) charm his way back into our good graces, which he could do much easier in person then - well - in absence, or

C) satisfy himself that he should not be with me, and feel less guilty, so he can move on (and of course, with me working full-time and raising the kids while he just hangs out in a small house in a strange city in semi-MLC limbo fog, well, why on earth would that work?!!)

Why does he have to make everything SOOO COMPLICATED? (or is it me that does that?!!)