Should I tell him he "played the game" with me last night? I don't know if it was because he was drinking (couldn't smell any on him, but he was out late, so I'm sure he had a few beers) or tired or wanted to. Not sure if he was hoping something would happen or was baiting me to see if I'd do something against his will. He did seem to be breathing deeply, I suspected he was asleep...
I wasn't sure if I should tell him he had done this or not, because I don't want him to freak out and leave the bed so it doesn't happen again, but then again, maybe he was trying to connect?
OK Pass, what are you hoping to accomplish by telling him?
I suspect you are hoping it will bring him closer.
Somehow I doubt he will react that way.
A question I don't have an answer to right now but is a very interesting one is if the bonding process DOES take place between a couple when the spouse is still sleeping.
If it DOES bring him closer to you by staying in the same bed, then do what you can to keep in the same bed if that's your goal. He won't realize you are drawing him back by you two staying in the same bed, but he really doen'st need to know that.
your call, and I am still not sure on that bonding process thing... its just a question at the moment. He may very well have to be awake for any bonding to take place, I have no idea.
