Thanks Trusting.

I would like him to come and spend time with the kids as their relationship is getting stronger again. I don't want him to withdraw because of my attitude although I always try to be happy and approachable when he is at home.

I do try and busy myself when he is around and I have gone out for the evening.

He can see my movement forward i.e decorating, changing my dress style etc.

Will carry on as I am at the moment and watch.