We are signing at 1pm.... together.... in the lawyer's office. Blech... I was hoping to do it apart but in order to get it done my L is coming to work on her day off ... to just get it done.
STBXH drove the crazy train into the wall Wednesday night and I let her be privy to the VM messages he had left and the 5 hours of crazy crap he pulled and my L lit a fire under the QDRO L to get the stuff pressed thru. So all the QDRO is done but one but it will be in the agreement and at this point it's worth the financial risk to just "get her done".
So relieved but dread the moments in there with him. I've only seen him a few minutes here and there for drop offs since November.
So sad that it has come to this. For him, what a loss.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
