I am sorry things are so tough for you these days.

I found a site that made me feel better about my WH's selfishness, hostility, etc. Their suggestions for dealing with him are not that different from here, but there is more detailed explanations of MLC/affair behavior. It is called midlife crisis marriage advocate com. His coldness is all about him, (isn't everything?) and nothing about you or his feelings for you. He sounds like a teenager who is totally self-absorbed and is not capable of thinking or empathizing with others. Their idea is the person goes into a MLC and usually becomes addicted to an affair among other things.




"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!"
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